The Social Baby- Understanding Babies’ Communication from Birth

Author – Lynne Murray and Liz Andrews

Age Range – Pre-birth to one

Key words – Promoting relationships

This book is for prospective parents and the parents of babies. It shows how ‘every baby is a unique individual from the moment of birth, with their own likes and dislikes, strengths and sensitivities. One baby might find it hard to settle to sleep, another may fall asleep easily, but might find undressing distressing. Similarly, babies differ in what they find soothing and comforting’.

The book uses extraordinary photo sequences and clear text to illustrate some of the key aspects of young children’s experiences and how parents can relate sensitively and responsively to them. In this way any difficulties can be better understood and managed without conflict. It is based on sound research, but presents information in an easily accessible way.

By helping parents to understand their baby’s personality, the book may enhance the parent-child relationship, helping parents to fall in love with their children. Attention is also paid to the parents, with chapters looking at the need for them to look after their own emotional well-being, and balancing child care with employment obligations. It is an empowering book which relishes the individuality of babies and parents, and assists families to confidently find their own ways of doing things.